There's a popular notion out there that God's design for marriage is not our happiness, but to make us more like Jesus. I have read articles and book summaries stating that our loving Father isn't at all concerned if we are happy in marriage. We need to stick it out no matter what, confess our … Continue reading Hope for a Happy Marriage
Category: the two Become One
Permission to be at Ease
Here I sit today. Post war. Post depression. A large portion of the debris left on the battleground of our marriage has been cleared away. Major excavation has taken place. Positive experiences are replacing the negative ones of the past. Happy memories are beginning to crowd out the old memories full of hurt and regret. … Continue reading Permission to be at Ease
Record Keeping
Several years ago, my husband and I attended a marriage retreat with couples from our church. One of the key points many of the women came away with is the fact that women are historical in nature, while men tend to be event-oriented. Normally, I shy away from putting men and women in completely separate … Continue reading Record Keeping
The Jesus Character
As part of our church’s drama team, I got the text early in the week. “Can you fill in on Sunday morning for the sketch? The girl who was scheduled has to go out of town unexpectedly.” I agreed and received a quick rundown on the script. My director concluded with this comment, “Yours will … Continue reading The Jesus Character
Treasures Hidden 